"Amazing Grace"

My roommate is used to say that she will marry a guy who can make her quit drinking coffee. For me, I would want someone who can help me to relax and abandon my inflexibility.

Everybody is unique and has his/her own personality. Somehow some qualities had already formed in me during the past 22 years, just like our habit and taste which are hard to change. They have becomed part of me and lived with me, no matter how weird or bad they are. They make what I am today. I know I should not blame for their existence! Yet sometimes I feel so helpless in manipulating them in various circumstances. This will cause me and others stress which is definitely not desirable for everybody. At this very moment, the whole of me will hate this part of me.

Thanks for your advice!